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15 Life Lessons from 15 Years of Travel

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Early February, 1998.

Janet Jackson had just hit number one on the Billboard charts, Bill Gates had just received a pie in the face in Brussels and I had just walked through the departure gates at Christchurch Airport.  With a deep breath I clutched my passport, said goodbye to my homeland and boarded a plane to the other side of the world.

I figured I’d be in London for a year or so, take a look around Europe, then return to New Zealand and settle down. That’s what everyone else did, after all.

Life, though, had other plans.

Last week I celebrated 15 years of travel. For the last decade and a half I’ve been addicted to life on the road. Dreaming about it, talking about it, saving for it or simply doing it, it has come to define who I am.

Back then, barely in my twenties and armed with a degree and a guidebook, I thought I knew everything. I didn’t. I still don’t have all the answers — I never will — but I’ve picked up a few more things along the way.

Here, then, are fifteen life lessons from my last fifteen years of travel. I’m hoping for many more of both.

Embrace Change

The older we get, the more stuck in our ways we become. We become too afraid to try something new, afraid to rock the boat, afraid of failure. We choose to stick with more of the same, burying the exhilaration of the unknown beneath the warm security blanket of what we’re already doing.

Cast that blanket aside. I have quit a job to travel half a dozen times and never regretted it. I’ve moved countries on a whim, followed my passions wherever they lead, taken risks in business, life and love. Every time, I’ve been afraid. Every time, I’ve backed away from the abyss, once, twice, often more.

In the end, though, I’ve thrown myself over the edge and embraced the change. In those moments, I feel more alive than any other. Change is often necessary and always exciting. Don’t be too afraid to make it.

Falling Dave

Find out for Yourself

Our media — and the society it serves — does a great job of spreading fear. Those who look different to us, don’t practice the same religion, or speak a different language are viewed with suspicion. We’re taught to be afraid of the ‘other’, to walk in lockstep down a road ending in xenophobia, anger and war.

It’s easy to hate the bogeyman. It’s much harder to hate the person that bogeyman represents when they’re standing beside you offering a cup of tea. It was only when I travelled, and came to rely on the very people I’d been taught to fear, that I realised how wrong and dangerous those ingrained attitudes really were.

Ignore the papers and magazines. Ignore the breathless reporters on the cable news show. Ignore the old guy down the street. Go find out for yourself.

One Size Does Not Fit All

People love to generalise from their own experiences. I’m doing it right now. For many, this means since they live their lives a certain way, you should too. Because they and everyone they know has a house in the suburbs, an SUV and an investment portfolio, so should you. If you don’t — and worse, if you don’t even want it — there’s something wrong with you.

For a long time, I believed that. I bought a house, filled it with stuff, renovated and eventually sold it. I invested in shares and rental properties. I bought an expensive car. The problem was, in the back of my mind, I didn’t actually want any of it.

I no longer own a house or a car. I have a backpack and two small boxes of memories. My investments are in cash and experiences, and this works perfectly for me.

It won’t be for everyone, of course, and that’s fine. We’re all different, and achieve happiness in different ways. One size does not fit all. Remember that when choosing your future.

Dave, House

People Are Fundamentally Good

When I left New Zealand, I was afraid. Many things frightened me, most of all other people. The world was scary, right? There was theft, rape and murder at every turn, according to the news reports, so I’d have to keep my wits about me. Don’t talk to strangers, keep my cash and documents in a money belt, always lock my bags, avoid bad neighbourhoods, all the rest.

It was a horrible way to travel. Basic security is one thing, paranoia about it is something else. Slowly, eventually, I let my guard down. I talked to people I’d just met, and accepted their invitations. I threw out my sweat-stained money belt. I visited the so-called bad neighbourhoods, and let my gut tell me whether I should stay there.

In 15 years, I’ve never been attacked or robbed. Instead I’ve been given directions or a ride when I’m lost, food when I’m hungry, drinks when I’m thirsty. I’ve embarked on glorious adventures with people I’d only known for a day or two, and when we finally said goodbye, hugged them close as friends.

Is everyone like that?  No, of course not — but most are. With few exceptions, the people I’ve met on my travels have been fundamentally good.  All I needed to do was let them show me.

We All Want the Same Things in Life

It really doesn’t matter where we come from, what we look like or what we do for a living, we’re all searching for a few basic things in life.

We all want somewhere warm and dry to sleep at night, and to not be hungry or thirsty while doing so. We all want a decent education, for our kids if not ourselves, and the ability to improve our lot in life. Good health is important, as is medical care when we need it. Finding love along the way wouldn’t go astray either, with family, friends and partners who care about us.

From a sheepherder in Tanzania to a banker in New York City, people’s fundamental desires all look the same when you boil them down. At the end of the day, our similarities far outweigh our differences.

Dave and Lauren lantern

Entitlement Is Ugly

I vividly remember the first time I visited a non-English speaking country. Arriving in Paris on a cold winter’s day, I couldn’t read the signs. People shrugged if I spoke to them, whether in English or abysmal French. I was staying outside the city centre and struggled to catch the train, find the hotel, buy groceries at the supermarket or do anything much at all. And I was angry about it.

How dare people treat me like that!  Why weren’t people helping me?  What was wrong with this city?

I didn’t return for ten years, convinced it was a horrible place. When I finally did, however, something strange happened. People were friendly. Life was easy. I joked with the waiters, laughed as I messed up my coffee order, bought a whole new wardrobe for the Moulin Rouge without a hitch. Surely Paris hadn’t changed that much?

Of course, what had changed wasn’t Paris at all. It was me. My arrogance, so strong in the past, had diminished, and I realised this place, like every other, owed me nothing.

It was nobody else’s fault I couldn’t speak French, or understand how things work. The world didn’t revolve around me, and that was my problem to deal with. Once I lost my ugly sense of entitlement, the world became a much better place to be in. It was a valuable lesson.

Open Your Heart

As adults, we’re taught to hide our feelings. We act professionally at work, keeping our thoughts to ourselves. We get hurt in relationships, losing our trust of others. In New Zealand in particular, men are supposed to be strong, taciturn and emotionally stunted. Over time, our horizons narrow, and we close our eyes and our hearts to new experiences.

Screw that. The more I travel, the more excited I become. I’ve regained the child-like sense of wonder that so easily disappears when you “act like an adult”. I laugh when I’m happy and cry when I’m sad. I sing in the shower and dance in the rain. I stand in front of a waterfall and stare, open-mouthed and silent, at just how incredibly damn beautiful it is.

Open your heart. Life becomes much more beautiful when you do.

Bridal Veil Falls, near Raglan

Stop Planning

For at least six months before I first left to travel, I planned. Some days, that’s all I did. I had guidebooks, brochures and print-outs. There were colour-coded sticky notes, multiple notebooks, Word documents, Excel spreadsheets … and that’s just the stuff I can remember.

It got totally out of hand, and of course, once I actually started travelling, it all went out the window anyway. I didn’t get to half the places on my list, went to many others I’d never considered, and quickly realised how unnecessary all that planning had been.

As life has continued, I’ve found myself making plans less and less, travel or otherwise. I never end up sticking to them anyway, and they stop me having those wonderful random experiences that turn up if I just let them.

Plan less. Live more.


For some reason, I used to walk around with a permanent frown. Maybe it was low self esteem, maybe it was a general lack of happiness in my life, maybe it was something else entirely. I don’t really know why I did it, but I do know it had very predictable results.

After travelling for a while, I noticed I’d adopted a different approach. Smiling. Because I often didn’t have the benefit of a common language, I had to resort to body language and a cheerful expression on my face. Suddenly I was making new friends and acquaintances. People would approach me for a chat where they never had before, or be happy to do me a favour without even asking.

It seems like such a simple thing, but learning to smile at strangers has been one of the most rewarding changes travel has made in my life. While I wouldn’t recommend it in every situation — solo females may want to think twice about smiling at men they don’t know in some parts of the world, for instance — in general it’s an easy route to new friendships and experiences.

Give it a go.

Dave and Koala

Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff

As a young adult, I was seriously uptight. When things weren’t going my way, I’d view it as a personal insult. How dare the bus not turn up, the movie tickets go up in price, or my hamburger be cold. I’d fume, shout and rage about the smallest things. It wasn’t pretty.

These days, things go wrong all the time. Missed flights, broken ferries, no accommodation, a tsunami — all of those things have happened in the last few months, and many more beside. These have potential to be real problems, but my reaction now is quite different. A raised pulse, a couple of deep breaths, and then just dealing with it. This didn’t happen overnight — it took many bad travel days to achieve a degree of ambivalence about it all.

The good thing with learning how to deal with the bigger stuff is it taught me to not care at all about the small stuff. More and more of life’s annoyances seem to fall into that category.

You Can Learn Something from Everyone (Especially the Kids)

I used to think education was something that happened in classrooms and lecture theatres. Once I got my degree, I thought, I could get rid of the books and be done with the whole learning thing.

Well, I sold the books alright, but it turned out I didn’t stop learning once I walked through the university gates for the last time. If anything, that’s when I started.

I learned the value of hard work from a street vendor in Thailand, and hospitality from a mother in Malawi. A moto-taxi rider in Vietnam taught me to trust strangers, while a teenager in Cambodia showed me the importance of hope. A lesson in humility came from an old man playing saxophone in Central Park, and by her own sacrifice, a young woman from Melbourne convinced me to become a part of something bigger than myself.

And kids, everywhere, are the best educators of all. Every day they teach me how to wonder, and they teach me how to dream. Unlike my school days, I never want those lessons to end.

Kids in Cambodia

Age Is a Number, Not a Limitation

It’s a funny thing, age. Some people view the passing of years as a limitation, while others see it as merely an idle curiosity. I’ve met 30 year olds who swear they’re too old to stay in hostels, and 70 year olds climbing into the bunk underneath me. I’ve met 40 year olds who tell me it’s far too late to change careers, and 60 year olds heading back to university.

If I’ve learned one thing in the last 15 years, it’s that you’re never too old to try something new. All you need is for the pain of the status quo to be greater than the pain of change. Of all the reasons or excuses you might find not to do something, your age isn’t one of them.

After all, you’ll never, ever be as young as you are right now.

You’ll Never Have It Figured Out, and That’s Ok

I had it all worked out. After university I would travel for a year, then return home. By 25 I’d have my first house, and my second by 30. I’d be married by then as well, probably with a kid, and be earning at least six figures. That was just how it was going to be.

I didn’t go home after a year, or even two. I didn’t own a house by 25, nor two five years later. I’ve never had a child, I wasn’t married by 30, and any chance of a six figure job at that point had disappeared in a flurry of passport stamps.

I’m now 37 years old and living out of a backpack. I work harder, for less money, than in any office job, and I do it from every part of the globe. I met my girlfriend on the road, and together we have a truly wonderful life — one I couldn’t have imagined in my wildest dreams 15 years ago. And, I’m pretty sure, this is just the beginning.

The only thing I now know is I definitely don’t have it all figured out. I never will. The great thing is I really don’t need to.

Working beside the pool, Turkey

Opinions Are Like Bellybuttons

Seeking advice from others is human nature. So, it appears, is giving advice to others, whether they’re looking for it or not. Over the last fifteen years, I’ve received more opinions about how to live my life than I ever thought possible.

Travel more. Settle down. Get married. Stay single. Have kids. Don’t breed. Buy a house. Rent an apartment. Invest in shares, or bonds, or cash, or property, or nothing at all.

I used to try to follow everybody’s advice as best I could, until I realised it was a recipe for disaster. Opinions are like bellybuttons — everybody has one — and now, although I’ll happily listen to the views of others, I’m far more selective about whose advice I take. At the end of the day there’s only one person who knows me perfectly and always has my best interests at heart.

That person is me.

Don’t Wait

I nearly didn’t go travelling when I did — a good job came up as I was about to leave, and I almost put things off. What’s another year or two, I thought? The same thing happened when I was leaving London, and again I almost cancelled my plans.

For a long time, too, I was afraid of travelling solo. It took months to work up the courage to finally book the ticket, and I was desperately trying to find a reason not to go until the last minute.

Almost every time I’ve made a big decision in life, actually, there have been plenty of good reasons not to do whatever I’m contemplating. Not to cancel it, perhaps, but to just postpone it for a while.

Don’t do that. We can always find an excuse not to do something that scares us, and fear will make any reason seem like a great one. Don’t wait until you have more money, don’t wait until you have someone to do it with, don’t wait until your friends think it’s a great idea, don’t wait until the timing is perfect. It never will be, so just go ahead and do it anyway.

Don’t wait.

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  1. We can’t imagine you without your child-like sense of wonder; or adult-like ability to put back beers 🙂

    (P.S. Your diggdigg widget is broken. Try commenting out some of the “”rawurlencode($url);” lines around the facebook widget in /digg-digg/includes/class-dd.php. Or something like that.)

    1. Hah! I’ll take that as compliment.

      PS: I couldn’t quickly fix the widget, and my internet is generally terrible at the moment, so I’ve just disabled it for now.

  2. I haven’t done nearly as much traveling as you have, but this post really resonates with me. Happy travelversary. Hope your next 15+ years of travel are filled with happiness, good health, good friends, and new discoveries.

  3. Wow, what an inspiring post. I too am 37 and I’ve never felt happier than when I’m on the road. I tried the whole buying a house, settling down and getting married life and it just wasn’t for me, so now I’m looking ahead at my next trip. It took me a while to realise that this is the life I want to lead. Others kept telling me that I just had to ‘get it out my system’ and then look for a proper job. It was tough going against convention but only you know what makes yourself tick and now everyone’s accepted that’s just the way I am. Thanks for making me realise I am normal 🙂

    1. Heh, you’re totally normal in my book! I too have been told, more times than I remember, that I just needed to get it out of my system. The reality is that this *is* my system. Convention might suggest otherwise but for me at least, convention is wrong.

  4. I LOVE this post! We hope we are as fortunate as you to travel for as long as you have. We have been full time traveling for only 12 months now but have no plans to stop. Even in 12 months we have changed considerably – All for the better! Thats what travel does to a person.

    Congrats on 15 years of travel and hopefully many more!

  5. A great milestone and some fantastic lessons learnt along the way Dave. Even in my short travels I’ve learnt some incredible lessons and as you say, we’ll never figure it all out, which means those lessons will just keep coming and I look forward to learning each and every one of them 🙂

  6. This truly is an inspiring post Dave. As someone who has traveled out of the US for the last 11 years always on short trips, it’s taken until I have a good career, a house and lots of stuff to I realize I’ve spent so much time getting somewhere I didn’t intend on being. A friend of mine calls that situation “golden handcuffs”.

    It’s good to see people my/our age group looking past common expectations and living the life that feels right, makes it seem within reach.

    September can’t come soon enough for me, and I’ll be on the road. Hope to see you out there!

    1. That’s exactly what it is – golden handcuffs. We’re conditioned to believe that having a “good job” and more and nicer stuff gives us a better life. For some, perhaps – but it’s absolutely at the cost of freedom and flexibility.

      Bring on September hey? 😉

  7. Agree with it all, expecially about opening your heart. That’s when you really *see* and the best things happen.

    Wishing you many more adventures…

  8. I have said it before and i will say it again … You Dave are absolutely incredible !!! One day .. We will be reading your book 🙂

  9. Love it. Spot on. It’s a pity we only meet people like you when we are away traveling … We’re currently home, (Sydney), saving, off again soon, but never inspired by those who stay put here. We *always* meet people who seem like you (& us) when we’re away. All the more reason to continue “getting it out of our system” forever! All the very best to you xx

    1. I felt *exactly* the same way when back working and living an apparently-normal life, just craving the kind of people that I met every day on the road.

      For a long time I tried to find those people back in the ‘real world’, until I finally figured out that the best place to meet the kind of people you meet on the road is … on the road, so that’s where I needed to be spending my time.

  10. This was so beautifully written and inspiring, thank you for writing it! Congrats on 15 glorious years, and cheers to the years to come!

  11. LOVE this. I’m 23 and I will soon be starting on my travel journey. I thought I knew what I wanted to do as well, get my forensic psych degree which I will have in May, but I planned to join the FBI or have my own practice and be in school forever. Something hit me when I realized I don’t want the “typical” life we are supposed to have, the job, kids, house etc. I do not want to live the same life everyone else is. Some may want that as you say, which is fine but I know thats not the life for me. As much as I love my studies, my gut is telling me to get a worldly education. I have no idea where I’ll wind up or how long I’ll be traveling but I know I won’t ever regret it.

    This post really hit home so thanks for writing it. I hope to be able to have life changing experiences like you had, during my travels.

    1. With an attitude like this, you’re definitely going to end up travelling … and as you say, I’d be very surprised if you ever regretted it.

      Good luck, and get out there! 🙂

  12. Absolutely amazing list, mate. Best part was regarding the sense of entitlement. Once people get over themselves, they find there is a great big world out there full of people just like you and me, ready and waiting to embrace each other. But only once that sense of arrogant entitlement is left behind 🙂

  13. Such an inspiring, well written article Dave. I leave for my big trip to Asia and Oceania in one week and this article has given me a lot to think about.
    The point you make about making up your own mind is especially true. It’s crazy how many people have been giving me advice about the countries that I’m going to (mostly by people who have never travelled!). More people have said ‘be careful’ than ‘have fun’! I can’t wait to make up my own mind about the world. I hope that my travels will make me half as wise as you!

    1. Thanks Stephanie! Yeah, the advice thing is tough … I’m sure people mean well, but unless they’re an expert in what they’re advising on, what they’re advising probably isn’t overly useful. Even then, it’s still important to make up your own mind and do what works for *you*.

  14. Dave – I have never met you, but it is quite amazing how my experiences and opinions mirror yours. I am a single 53 female and have traveled the world extenstively on my own (45 countries and counting). I have said my version of your 15 life lessons to friends and family more times than I can count. Most of my friends and family think I am nuts to travel as I do. In response to comments I always tell people (1) people are basically good; (2) we all want the same things in life; (3) what are you going to learn sitting on a couch in the country in which you were born; and (4) when you die will you be able to say you experienced the world. Rock on Dave and enjoy the the 7 continents!

  15. Love this post. So inspirational.

    I haven’t traveled as much as you have, but I’ve traveled a bit, and I’ve (slowly) been learning a lot of the same lessons: be open, be kind, stop planning so much, don’t bother with advice that wasn’t meant for you (e.g. “buy a house by age 30!” “have kids by age 32!”).

    Travel can really shift a lot of paradigms in your life, if you let it.

  16. Hi Dave – as others before me have said- Great post! I particularly enjoyed the bit about entitlement which reflect some of my ‘my worst travel moment’ experiences. I wanted to be quick to be mad with everything around me when it was in fact, me having a bad day and a bad attitude problem.

  17. Hi, Dave,
    Just read your blog for the first time. What a great post! I live in Milwaukee, and wanted to let you know that one of my most favorite places on earth, that I have visited, is Christchurch. I loved that town and New Zealand overall.
    I do think traveling solo is a bit more dicey for a female. I’ve done it locally in the US. I’d be interested in hearing comments from your readers who have traveled internationally, solo, what their experiences have been.

  18. Dave,

    For someone who has started travelling after spending almost his entire life (25 years of it) in a small town, I believe in the power of travel to change perceptions of what adds meaning to life, as much as is evident from your lessons.

    Truly treasure this article and cheers to more travelling.

  19. Great lessons Dave. Yes, the simplest one is to smile, and it’s free 🙂

    And you’re right, age is just a number, it’s an attitude. I’m pushing 40 this year, but I don’t feel like it, and certainly don’t act it, lol.

  20. personal question, but valid one in light of your advice, i think.
    it takes money to travel – if you’re travelling all the time, how do you (or how does one) make the money to support it?

    1. Ravi – yup, it’s a personal question, but a valid one and one that I get a lot, so I’m happy to answer it.

      For most of the last fifteen years I juggled my career with regular multi-month travels. During that time I saved as much money as possible, avoiding unnecessary costs as much as I could, not buying things I didn’t need, avoiding debt where I could and paying it off as quickly as possible if I couldn’t avoid or defer it. When I decided that I wanted to make travel a fulltime career, I worked almost as many unpaid hours on my site as I did in my paid jobs over the course of a couple of years until it started to earn some money.

      Even with all of the travel I had done, I still had a reasonable amount in my savings account when I decided to bite the bullet – which gave me a decent buffer while building up my business income. I now earn enough from advertising, paid writing for other sites and a few other things, to pay for my travels in the cheaper parts of the world at least. I work more hours for less money than I ever have before, but it hardly feels like ‘a job’ most of the time.

  21. wow! totally, couldn’t agree more.

    As for whoever mentioned it being dicey for women, it isn’t. The same personal precautions women take in their own countries should be taken abroad.

    I think more women travel solo than men.

    It’s easy to travel with others you meet along the way if you’re feeling lonely.

    Women travellers have access to the life of other women in segregated societies in a way that men never will. And we often get to sit in the coffee shop with the men as well.

  22. Thank you for sharing your amazing experience and inspiring many of us.
    I am planning going backpacking on my own for a few months to south Asia what is a bit scary and it has been really helpful. In a society where as you say choosing a different way to live our lifes is not very acceptable knowing people like you make us realise that it is not just possible but wonderful.

    All the best,


  23. AMAZING! super inspirational as always! theres much more wonderfulnes I could say about that article but I will sop by saying AMAZING! REALLY ENJOYED THE READ! Never stop travelling or writing! 🙂

  24. Thanks for sharing! I have been overseas since 1994, with my intentions of being away for one year. Like you, life is a wonderful adventure and one of the best learning experiences I have ever had. Like my travels, many of my choices are off the beaten path. I wouldn’t change this life for anything.

    Live life to the fullest and have no regrets!

  25. Very cool. I feel you and I have heard a lot of the same comments from people in our lives. Your observations are great; simple and true. Happy travels (I’m on 16 yrs away).

  26. woohooo! – Dave, thank you so much for giving words to also my thoughts and conviction!! think, I’d never find such a perfect way to express experiences and lessons, I was able to make on my ways…now more than 5 years…surely different – but similar… 🙂
    keep up that delight for life!!…and roll on!!
    best regards from Medellín/Colombia

  27. Fantastic! I’ve been travelling for 14 years now and have learned so many of your lessons myself. Its really nice to see them written down so eloquently and honestly as a reminder.

  28. Thanks so much for sharing. Seeing other people who have the courage to do what I have considered, but put-off, is inspiring.

  29. What a beautiful message and I concur very much with many of the points you made. In the words of Moslih Eddin Saadi, “A traveler without observation is a bird without wings.”

  30. That’s some sound advice!! I started raising kids at 19 now my youngest is 19. I’m 37 and have all the freedom in the world and have been scared to use it for many of the reasons listed here! This was inspiring! I almost through a bag in the car and took off, I probably should’ve!

  31. Wow Dave, you’ve inspired me! At 37 and some major changes in life i really want to travel again. Recently went on a short trip to vietnam by myself, but now wanting to travel more… starting with more of se asia. bit scared of being a solo female backpacker, but think I just need to do it, and reading these posts have given me more inspiration… just hope i get there!!! 🙂 Great site… many nights of reading for me 🙂 ! Thanks!

  32. Great blog! I have been traveling for 3 months around South America and cancelled my flight home. I wasn´t sure if I should go home or continue traveling but this blog has changed my mind to just stay 🙂 if you have any suggestions about finding work, earning money and traveling can you let me know thank you!!

  33. Dave, this is great! I’m 37 too, and just had my first year on the road, with my hubby and 5 kids. And I too dont have it all figured out. But I’m having a lot of fun! All the best for the next 15 yrs on the road.

  34. What a fabulous post! Your 15 life lessons are so right on. What a wise man you have become. Not everyone is suited for the ‘traditional’ life and I would bet that most would choose something different if they weren’t so afraid. Travel opens your eyes and creates a respect for others that are different from you. I don’t travel full time, and I would have a much bigger bank account if travel were not a passion, but I have learned in life that money doesn’t make you happy, I’m at my happiest when exploring and learning new things about people and places.


  35. Congratulations of 15 years of travel! I really like your point about age. I just met a woman in her 60s whose husband just died. She says she’s off to explore China for awhile. She is clearly not letting age or circumstance limit her.

  36. Yet another well-written, inspiring post Dave! I love reading your blog and have shared it with my daughter who is about to set out on her own life and travel adventure. Cheers to the valuable lessons learned in 15 years of travel!

  37. This is amazing. There is not one word in this entire article I found to be untrue, and absolutely mirrors my experiences with travel and life as well. Thanks for sharing.

  38. This was a great post. I would almost add that to One size does not fit all
    and Everyone Has An Opinion…

    One size doesn’t fit all for all travel trips. I hear people say awful things about a country when they had something happen to them for the one day in one town of that whole country they were there. My friend was actually told not to eat at pubs in London because the food was not good and she was told that it was so dangerous in London with the pickpocketing. I read a guy post about he hated traveling to America (he was British). I bet he didn’t visit all 50 states and probably only went to a couple of towns. America is a huge place and every state is so different. This girl told me she would never go to Australia, because her friend said that Aussies were awful to her as a South American female. I was like…what…that’s going to say you hate this country because of that? This applies to opinions, too. Everyone has them, but they don’t always apply, especially if they haven’t been there in over 10 years. Things change.

  39. At last. A fellow full-time travel addict. My husband and I are celebrating 17 years on the road this month. No house, no car, no worries. At home wherever we are. Unlike you we waited until our children left the nest to discover the wonders of life on the road. We love every minute of it and plan to travel until our health says otherwise. Enjoy it while you are young. After all we only regret the things we didn’t do in life. To promote full time travel we founded the National Association of Full-Time Travelers (NAFTT) at http://www.fulltimetravelers.org and its sister site, Comphoppers to help full-time travelers stretch their travel dollars. I would love to feature your article on the NAFTT site with your byline and a link to your site.

  40. Wow…thank you for that. Im 25, just recently quit my “life” to travel for 5 weeks and it was the most incredible thing I have ever done. Since being back, I crave it…yern for it…pine for it every day. But mostly, I pine for that feeling of newness, of being challenged and changed every single day. Of appreciating every time that the sun rises and sets, because our days are so special and exciting… the way we did as children. Even at 25, I am terrified to make any small change…terrified everything will crumble and Ill be to blame. Scared, so I sit here stuck. But your post has grounded me, so thank you.

  41. Most of the lessons here struck a chord with me. And there are just so many “quotable quotes.”

    “My investments are in cash and experiences. This works perfectly for me.” –> I love this! I prefer investing in experiences too.

    “After all, you’ll never, ever be as young as you are right now.” –> A variation of what I keep telling myself whenever I feel regret at starting travel at a later age. I want to make the most of my time now instead of regretting the past.

    “You’ll never have it figured out, and that’s ok.” –> I know this, but sometimes I need to be reminded. Thanks!

  42. Very thought provoking post! I do wish I, we could all just do what makes us happy instead of worrying about what we look like to others. My other wish, the media would stop selling fear so children could be children, adults could be adults and we could all live our lives to the fullest!

  43. Love this story. Such a great inspiration. The line about the 30 year olds feeling too old is spot on. I even hear 22 year olds saying they are too old for _______. It’s crazy that people force those limitations on themselves.

  44. Awesome stuff Dave. Well done for following your heart. An inspiration to youngsters. Lots of love from Singapore!

  45. shikha aggarwal

    dude u rock…trust me i was going through something… n now i m sure i wont wait.. would try n go ahead..love every bit if it …
    i hate reading but your this article didnt let my eyes blink for once… awesome just wow experiences u had in life..
    touch wood…keep sharing

  46. Very inspiring, I’m grateful to my friend Ashley (who actually embraced a similar lifestyle to yours) for sharing your article.
    And now I’ve passed this on to my friends & followers.

    Once again, thank you.


  47. What an incredibly rich 15 years for you! That is fantastic!!
    I’m 37 now as well, I keep being told that I should start making “sensible” decisions … I’ve tried those and they were stifling like a musty old potato cupboard! I haven’t travelled nearly as much as you, yet I’ve moved around all my life and four and a half years in the same place has been the most I’ve been able to stretch to. And every time before a big decision I have dozens of reasons to potentially postpone what I’m about to do – it’s reassuring to hear you say the same! And right now I’m sitting where you started, in NZ looking to explore this place and get to know these people for a bit 🙂
    I take my hat off to you …

  48. Wonderful and inspiring. Thank you for this. I have been married, have 4 kids, a mortgage, real job and all the trappings of a Western “need more” philosophy.
    However, I take 2 months off per year and travel, mostly in Australia, often backpacking or bush walking where I find serenity. It’s all about balance in one’s life.
    I do like your piece about media. We live in a cynical world which sells fear and run be rich white assholes. Learn to be thankful for what you have, not what you haven’t got. Gratitude and humility. Thanks again, mike

  49. Well said. I agree with everything you said. It’s comforting to hear this. I enjoy your posts very much. Thank you

  50. The meaning of life is life itself.

    I thought the narrative was posturing and pointless, an advertisement, and a gratuitous one, for self-obsession.

  51. One of the most right-on articles about travel-learned wisdom I’ve read. Heartfelt, concise, straight to the point. Thank you, fellow traveler.

  52. Found your site via r/travel on reddit. 🙂 great find and loved this post. You’ve found a way to stop drinking that corporate kool-aid!!! I’m definitely subscribing.!!

  53. Reading this as I’m in the Congo I agree with it all,
    Yes it’s scary to take the first step but like eating an elephant it all starts with the first bite.

    Congrats to you and keep moving

  54. Love this!!!!! 100x more excited for Germany and Denmark now. Just wondering, how did you manage to afford so much travel? And make so much time for it? Thanks 🙂

  55. I love this, Dave! I can relate to everything.
    I’m only 19 and had my life “figured out” since I was 16. I’d move to NYC to study photography. And I did. I never really had any economical issues until my dad told me that he had lost his job halfway through the semester and I had to leave the city and my university. I was heart-broken at the time but after a lot of hard work, someone agreed to fund a short course in London. I worked two jobs to fund everything else and I left to live three months in a wonderful city! I couldn’t afford a place so I couch surfed the entire time which was wonderful because I got to see what London was really like and I met so many amazing wonderful people! I also managed to travel around Europe on weekends.
    Now I’m back and I’m freelancing and I will move to the USA with a friend (because, as you probably know by now, you can’t save much with a minimum wage job) to work and save up and hopefully travel the world next year! I’m so excited.

    1. Loved hearing your story, Daniela! Really does go to show that (a) life has a way of working out even when things don’t go at all according to plan, and (b) motivation, hard work and not making excuses can help overcome a lot of obstacles. Good luck!

  56. Love those ideas, especially how a smile can go a long ways and also that you are never to old to try something new. Very thought provoking ideas. Thanks Dave!!

  57. Hey Dave, I’m new to your blog, thanks to Nomadic Matt.
    I must say this is one of the best, wisdom-filled articles I’ve read all year.
    I’m now a loyal subscriber…Thank you and keep it going.

  58. Just came across this great post, Dave. Thoughtful, generous and inspiring! A very good share…best wishes from a fellow kiwi.